When you know that in less than 2 months your life will change forever

We are almost at the 2 month mark...In 1 month and a few days we will take 2 bags (one for Levi and I and one for the boys) that weigh less than 40 lbs a piece and board a flight for Thailand. We have a meeting there with our company but decided to meet some dear friends a few days early to reconnect. ( These were our closest friends in India and they moved 2 years ago. We haven't seen them since! ) We will be in Thailand for about 2 weeks and then we will say goodbye to our boys who will fly to America to have an amazing American summer (which they have never experienced) with the grandparents getting spoilt and having a blast. We will put them on a van for the airport (we have decided for Levi's mom's sake we will say our goodbyes before taking them to the airport. Airport goodbyes are way too hard for the boys and the ones carrying the boys away while they are screaming to stay) and head to China to pick up our little girl.

After being with her in China for 3 weeks, we head to America to get her US passport and for the whole family to get new visas to India. We pray that this is an easy process as many expats are having major complications getting back into India. So, we are advised to pack up our stuff (which we plan to do because we are leaving for the whole rainy season which means mold is sure to invade our home and we hope to keep it at bay with our clothes and linens by packing them in plastic bags and keeping them in the sunniest room in the house.

So, the past few days I have been packing cooking and freezing food for a Mississippi team that arrives at our house tomorrow... and dreaming. Because we don't live near any place to shop and we are going straight to America, we are letting Levi's mom get the clothes for the first few weeks (she has been so supportive and amazing) and then we will rely on the "hand-me-down" boxes of clothes from my sisters. (Our family does hand me down boxes...they are huge plastic storage containers labeled for girls sizes and boys sizes. My oldest sister just put all her hand me downs in them and then I used them for our boys, adding pieces here and there, and Emily used them for her girls. As the kids in the family increase, the hand me down boxes have been such a blessing and we are all benefitting from them!) Anyway, our house looks exactly the same. I have pulled out some baby toys but besides that you would never know that a beautiful little girl is about to enter our home.

I am spending several hours a day cuddling both boys but especially Tate who loves to be held and can't stand to see me sitting down without holding him. I know these cuddle times are so important because a new baby in the house means the expectations of our baby Tate are going to suddenly increase and baby Tate will be bigger in the moment that we realize what a baby really looks like again. I am taking mental pictures, writing down every funny phrase, playing ball, and shedding a tear or two as we say goodbye to life as a family of four. What joy awaits us! I am so excited about the future that lies ahead but new days dawning means that days are also done...and the days of holding the hands of "all" my kids as we walk down the road will never be again.

I spend my nights writing letters to the boys for the days we will be apart and trying to figure out how we are going to do this. I have never spent more than 3 days without these wild and crazy boys and there have been 5 days or more on numerous occasions where Levi was gone and it was too cold to get out and they have been the ONLY ones I have spoken to...for 5 days...the ONLY ones!!! Sometimes this isolation in my life totally blows my mind! haha They drive me crazy and there are many times when I tell myself "if only we had someone who lived near and I could just leave them for a couple of hours!" But the crazy thing is that I daily struggle with the idea of the weeks we will be apart and the only way to not cry about it is to dream of her. To dream of holding her, of the tears that are sure to fall from her face when she hears a language she is not used to, smells things she can't place, and sees a world that is so unfamiliar...then I think of holding her with Tate crying and screaming that she can't be with "his mommy" and Wyatt crying because he is hungry or wants me to play with him and I am quickly reminded that we are making the best choice to leave our wild ones with grandparents so we can focus solely on her.

So, needless to say our lives are so up in the air! we are packing our house in case we never make it back to India, we are leaving for months with 2 small bags and 2 carry ons for our family of 4, and we are leaving and adding a new addition to the family...I have to write lists upon lists of what I need to do and when to do it, I have already packed a bag and weighed it, repacked it and weighed it about 3 times until it got down to the bare essentials of what we really need.

I praise the Lord for the lifestyle we live. It is hard, it is stretching, and it is stressful...but it is sweet and it daily brings out the parts of me that need the Lord's grace and mercy to chisel the yuck and show me that if we leave this house in India never to return, stuff is just stuff and it just doesn't matter...if an earthquake comes and our house gets swept up in a landslide and ends up in another city, stuff is just stuff and it doesn't matter....if I come back to Shimla to a home full of mold that has ruined so much of our stuff, then it really won't matter....if I didn't pack enough cute clothes, play clothes, work out clothes, or sleep clothes then it really won't matter...because life is more than stuff, more than clothes, more than any of the other "things" that I have on my mind...it is about KNOWING HIM, it is about loving others, investing our lives in relationships that matter...living in obedience to the King of Kings!

the other night Wyatt was praying for his friend down the road and he said, "God, will you just show him that you are the One True God who can hold the whole world in your hand?" God, tonight with so many unknowns ahead in my life....thank you for reminding me that you alone...are the one who holds the world...you alone.